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Mother’s don’t forget our daughters

April 14, 2014

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Since everyone is talking about Mimi Faust and her porn with fake Stevie J. (Nikko ), I decided to add my two cents. Yes, I think it is in poor taste. Yes, I think he is using Mimi to get two of her five minutes of fame, and it will spread across broxxx.com and other sites. However, I see a sad and bigger issue.

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What about poor little Eva, the precious baby girl that she co-parents with Stevie J. The very same daughter that she didn’t want that, “tramp bitch” Joseline Hernandez anywhere near. Why as a mother, who claims to be a “lady” and a “role model ” for your daughter would you make porn (Yes, I said porn, similar to https://www.nu-bay.com/ because that is what it is)? Don’t worry Mimi, I will wait……..

I could understand if she was making porn as her job like The Babestation babes. That is completely different as that is business and it’s their profession. However, Mimi has just done this to boost her fame and get some quick cash. I think it is messed up that a lot of mothers tend to forget about their daughters and how their actions will affect them. There’s a difference between privately watching content on sexm.xxx and participating in them! Yes, I have had my moments of very poor judgement and I have done things that the mature Me frowns upon. However, once I became a mother, I changed. More than that, once I had my daughter, I cut a lot of bull sh#t because I had someone that was looking to Me for the blueprint to womanhood. Now I know that we have no control over what our kids do and the path that they take in life but we lay the foundation. As parents it is our responsibility to give our children roots(to grow) and wings( to soar), not expose them to sex, lies and video tapes.

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It makes for good TV ratings and I am sure Vivid is going to pay good but when the money is gone and the show is canceled, your daughter will be there looking at you, with questions and embarrassment. Yeah you worked that shower curtain but how will you work that conversation that your going to be forced to have with Eva? Having sex with a man on camera, looking toyally coked up and selling it to for public viewing; is this behavior you want your daughter to emulate? I think not!!!

I know that life is to be lived but damn mothers don’t forget about your daughters. Don’t plant seeds in them that you don’t want to grow.

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  1. misskittywally says

    April 14, 2014 at 11:35 pm

    I honestly wonder if drugs are involved. I loved Mimi first season and then the little bit that I saw of her last season… She just seemed way off… Who knows, perhaps she reached her breaking point and just snapped. I pray for her and the family

    • iamphatgirlfresh says

      April 14, 2014 at 11:47 pm

      I totally think that drugs played a part.

  2. Marlon IammusicPeriod Pitmon says

    April 15, 2014 at 4:01 pm

    I think people should chill!! It is there business and nobody was saying shit to Joseline and Stevie when they were posting pics online! But she puts out a sex tape and now you all are suddenly great christians!!! BOOO!!! #SLEEPY

    • iamphatgirlfresh says

      April 15, 2014 at 4:55 pm

      I think that she is entitled to do as she pleases when it is all said and done. However, as a mother is that what she want her daughter to see. And she is a hypocrite for talking so bad a Joseline. For the things that she has done. I am not speaking as a Christian, I am speaking as a mother. As I stated, the young Me has done plenty of dumb shit.

  3. SparkleTheStylist says

    April 16, 2014 at 7:42 am

    Great blog post. Another thing that saddens me is that Nikko was able to coheres her into recording the tape, which definitely makes me think drugs were a factor. He needed her to dispose of his gay rumors. This tape was his idea and the fact that her own mind was not strong enough makes me wonder what else she ” can’t” handle. Poor Eva…

    • iamphatgirlfresh says

      April 16, 2014 at 8:20 am

      Thank you Sparkle. Yes, I think that she is super weak and broke. Nikko, is definitely using her for many reasons in my opinion one being to dispose the gay rumors, like gay men don’t sleep with women. She is a educated black woman who is a mother and a entrepreneur, but she threw shade on all of that, for a man. She may as well have stayed in the triangle with Stevie and Joseline, at least Stevie was going to take care of her and Eva. Lol!!!!! It is just sad.

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    • iamphatgirlfresh says

      August 23, 2014 at 9:14 pm

      That is fine.

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